“Not Back To Normal —No—No”

Matthew 2:1-12

First Presbyterian Church

The Reverend Donald E. Ray

January 6, 2008

The Epiphany of the Lord

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‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house, not a creature was stirring--not even a mouse.’  That is not all together accurate.  There were creatures stirring, namely a rottweiler mix and a 70 pound chocolate lab--and they were stirring.  ‘When out in the living room there arose such a clatter, Karen sprang from her bed to see what was the matter.’  

There was the ripping of paper and the crunching of something.  ‘Visions of presents dragged from under the tree, shredded and crushed rocked in our heads.’  But the presents were in tact. It was only the day’s Post Journal that had been torn.  The crunching, however was of a bamboo nativity scene, an irreplaceable treasure from Karen’s years in Hawaii , which had fallen victim to the chocolate lab’s teeth.  

Blue, the chocolate lab was an 11 month old “puppy” rescued from the Humane Society by Jess, my son Matt’s fiancee.  You may be wondering why a tan colored dog would be named, “Blue.”  There was a deep sadness in the puppy’s eyes that attracted Jess’ attention at the Pound.  Blue was just the appropriate name for this forlorn, obviously abused animal.  

Matt and Jess had gone out for the evening, leaving the dogs with us.  Blue, feeling abandoned, was just acting out.  Now she had gotten into puppy mischief again and, at Karen’s cry of distress over the mutilation of the Nativity set, Blue, all 70 pounds of her cowered, expecting a beating as she had apparently suffered often in her former life.  But Karen is also a dog lover so Blue was not whipped this time.  The dogs were simply ushered back to the spare bedroom and this time watched a bit more closely until their “family” returned.  

Morning light revealed the damage was not as bad as feared.  A battered angel and disheveled shepherd were repaired with relative ease.  The baby Jesus however had suffered the worst.  Much patience and fingers singed with the hot glue gun got the infant back in shape enough that if the manger bed was pushed to the back of the stable, he didn’t look too bad.  For the remaining days of her stay, Blue was treated with the kindness and caring fitting for any creature, and when she left for home after our Christmas celebration, it was strikingly evident her eyes were not so “blue.”  

Infected by my Seminary training with a homiletical mindset, I knew there had to be some message to this happening.  I wrote a rough draft of the story shortly after the incident.  For some twelve years, those scribbled lines have somehow never been far from hand.  Many times I have thought of finishing it, but the week before Christmas this year, I felt a strong prompting to get it out and take the story a step nearer completion.  When Karen read the present draft she asked, “Is this a sermon?”  I hadn’t thought of it as such, but then as Tom has so aptly said, in the hands of that unseen partner, one doesn’t always know where a sermon is going.  

With the celebration of Christmas over, there is commonly a sense of relief in the anticipation of a return to life as usual.  We’ve heard it, likely said it ourselves: “Now we can get back to normal.”  But there is something about Epiphany that says, “No! No!”  From my years of pastoral counseling, I wish I had the proverbial nickel for every time I heard, “If I could just go back to the way things were.”  Not only were things not so rosy back there as we are inclined to picture them, there simply is no going back.  We are impacted by every experience in our lives, so even if the past could be restored, we are not the same.  

We dare not attempt return to normal after Christmas.  The story of Herod is a rude intrusion into the Scriptural Nativity stories.  Yet the tyrant’s brutal slaughter of innocent children and the agonized grief of their mothers likely has more basis in fact than all the accounts of a Bethlehem manger, shepherds, and wise men.  In a world God designed for love and joy and peace, hatred, cruelty and violence are too much the norm, and have been for too many centuries.  The beauty of the nativity story scarred by Herod’s threat becomes a nail biter as the Wise Men are prompted to go home by a different route and Joseph is warned to spirit his new family off to Egypt .  

When Jess’ chocolate lab attacked the bamboo Jesus, our family comedian hearing the tale, spun a diabolical plot around Blue going after the “main man,”  Jesus himself.  One need not subscribe to the ultra conservatives’ battling satan at every turn nor echo Martin Luther’s “world with devils filled” to know that the way of Jesus lives in jeopardy.  It is the normal too easily accepted that threatens the way of love, the path of peace.  

That is the normal to which we dare not go back.  If we have celebrated Christmas—truly “Christmased Christmas,” we do not want to go back to normal—indeed it would be very difficult to go back to normal.  

The day before Christmas, I sat at the computer to pull together a prayer for the Candlelight Service.  Checking my e-mail first, I found a note from a friend of Irish heritage with a link to the YouTube production of Celtic Woman Christmas celebration.  I sat mesmerized, moved to tears watching and listening to four superbly talented vocalists and a violinist rendering “O Holy Night,” “Silent Night,” “Christmas Pipes,” “Carol of the Bells,” and I was on a hill outside Bethlehem listening to angels.  

Then I came to Christmas Eve here where music, live and real and present, stirred and warmed; the sermon made this place a new manger birthing room; a star shown over the table where we gathered to “see” the presence of Christ; and the lighting of candles made visible the hope that even a flickering, fragile flame shines in the darkness, and darkness cannot overcome that light.  Christmas Eve Candlelight Service has long been the heart of Christmas for me, but this year it was somehow even more so.  

In the course of our preparations for our family Christmas celebration, it was evident things were not going to be the same as in the past.  There was nostalgic sadness at the loss of many age-old traditions, but also a little relief that some of the stress was reduced.  With most of the tasks done, there wasn’t that much to do the day before Christmas so I volunteered to ring the bell for the Salvation Army Kettle drive.  Assigned for two hours to the Lakewood Quality market site, outside, I went dressed for the cold.  But two hours is a long time in the wind chill.  

The hardest point was after an hour and a half.  It had already been a long time but too soon to start a countdown to the end.  At that moment a friend who had worked as an orderly during my days at WCA came out of the store, handed me a hot cup of coffee and with best wishes for Christmas, placed a donation in the Kettle.  It gives a whole new meaning to “whoever gives…even a cup of cold water (or of hot coffee) because he (or she) is a disciple,…(Matthew 10:42) when you are on the receiving end even as you are involved in acts of charity.  

In reflection, I realize that it was that act of kindness that touches the heart of what Christ in our lives and world is about that sparked the greater appreciation of beauty in music and light.  Then that about Christmas, its spirit, magic, wonder, beauty, fans that spark to a steady light and warmth.  Yes, there is much of the Christmas celebration that needs to be put away.  We couldn’t deal with it year round and the special blessing would be lost in routine.  But the kindness and care, the generosity in spirit, the things we do that make for peace; those we dare not surrender to darkness or allow to stagnate in our “normal.”  

What was it that happened to Blue that Christmas those many years ago that lifted some of the sadness from her eyes.  Was it that the beating she expected didn’t happen, and the caring and acceptance she received eased some of the ingrained despair?  Was it perhaps that crunching on the bamboo figure of a baby, she ingested a bit of Jesus?  Was it that there truly is a Spirit of Christmas that can be news of great joy, even to a dog?  

This Epiphany, we have opportunity not so much to comprehend what or why or how it happens, but just to know that having celebrated Christmas there is no going back to normal.  We return home but it is by a different way.

Vaughn Williams wrote:

       Now when these kings their gifts had given

            The star still shone for them from heaven,

                  To light them on their journey.

       So home they went in hope and joy;

           The star shone bright to show the way

                   That led to their own country.

        The morning star still shines today

             To guide men in the heavenly way

                    Where shall be joy and singing.

 

In the Christmas story, the music, the star, the candle, the touch of love in family and friends, something is born in us, protecting that from the normal, nourishing it in meditation and worship to keep the spirit from starving in stagnation.  Life takes on new meaning and treasure, devotion and purpose.  

As we gather at this table today and ingest a morsel of bread and drink from a tiny cup, we ingest by faith and trust a bit of the love and joy and peace that is Christ, the news of great joy, of peace and good will.  Something of the forlorn blue fades, and there is starlight in our eyes—those windows to our souls.  

Amen.

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